Curse

Tyla · Apr 12, 2008, 01:24 PM // 13:24

14 years old and now in love with a girl who I can't ask out because I get shy...

Question is, what do you do? (This applies to the all gender differences aswell.

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Continually look at them and hope for the best?
Ask around and try to secretly get your message to them through friends?
Rush to them regardless of anything and ask them out?

Or whatever?

Malice Black · Apr 12, 2008, 01:35 PM // 13:35

You're 14?!

Grab her ass.

RiKio · Apr 12, 2008, 01:40 PM // 13:40

Act as a ninja:

-Be charming with her.
-Try to be her friend.
-Get close...and close...and close...in your friendship
-When you feel you and her have a very close relationship, start hanging on with her....alone
-And, when her emotional defenses are down....USE YOUR NINJA SMOOTH MOVES AND KISS HER AND R--- HER AND...oh well...

Seissor · Apr 12, 2008, 02:07 PM // 14:07

stop stalking them... the more you stare, the more frightened they get.

captainccc · Apr 12, 2008, 02:13 PM // 14:13

Well first of all you said your 14, you cant be in love haha, probably just have a crush.

Just talk to her dude, be funny, then ask her out to the movies. Simple as that.

I Is Special · Apr 12, 2008, 02:15 PM // 14:15

May i direct you to this Post on guru, very helpful for me.
http://guildwarsguru.com/forum/showp...postcount=1251

Divinitys Creature · Apr 12, 2008, 02:41 PM // 14:41

Just talk to her and ask her out. If she makes it real hard be more forward and just ask her out.

Tushi · Apr 12, 2008, 03:02 PM // 15:02

Take some handcuffs and bunch of drugs. Drug her and then handcuff her to the bed and have fun with her.

Elder III · Apr 12, 2008, 05:08 PM // 17:08

#1 - Ignore the Pervs on this forum ^^^^^^^^

#2 - try to get to know the girl first, make small talk, find out what she likes, try to be as "normal" as possible (I know all of that is harder than it sounds when you are 14 but it gets easier with practice.) Once you know her a little, or at least know somewhat about her, just tell her you like her/think she's cool, and ask if she would like to hang out with you. It may go easier if you try to get her friends to hang out some with your friends to... group situations are less threatening for everyone.

#3 - Whatever you do be honest, in all relationships in life, especially the close ones - BE HONEST - you will have regrets if you don't.

******Most importantly - you are too young - wait a couple years before you try to have a girlfriend - a friend is great, but you need to learn more about life before you have that kind of relationship (just trust me on that one) - good luck and remember: HONESTY & NORMAL = L33T*****

azzer20 · Apr 12, 2008, 05:40 PM // 17:40

Act cool and act like you don't want her.

get eye contact a few times, then act like nothing happened, most women love it when a guy don't want her.

RedStar · Apr 12, 2008, 06:28 PM // 18:28

First of all, try to know if she knows you. If she don't then stop

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Continually look at them and hope for the best?

xD

If she knows you, (in a not bad way xD) then start becoming her friend (if she doesn't know you, then it will be harder). But if you become her "close" friend, then it's over xD, she won't date you in "fear" of losing her friendship with you.

If you are really hot (xD), then ask her directly (that's not a really good advice, I know lol).

Anyway, personally, I don't deal with things like that lol because What I want, I get. xD

ccruzp · Apr 12, 2008, 07:00 PM // 19:00

You are too young, if this is your first crush you will probably screw it up, for practice learn to be more friendly and try to talk to a different person (preferably oposite gender) each 2-3 days, it gets easier each time and you build up confidence, dont try to only talk the girl you are interested, there are lots of interesting people in the world waiting to be met, and your crush may turn out to be a royal disapointment and the "girl next door" you met on your training sessions a real treasure.
As to what I do... theres no one way to do it, if its a girl who studies w/ me I find a friend in common and ask to get introduced to her then small talk and try to go out w/ other people then date alone. If im in a bar (i dont supose you should be anytime soon) I just come up to the girl w/ any kind of small talk, odds are they are there to meet people too and the fact that you came up to talk to her is already a compliment and if it fails think that at least you made someones day =).
Or you can pull her hair.

FlamingMetroid · Apr 12, 2008, 07:48 PM // 19:48

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Originally Posted by Tyla

Continually look at them and hope for the best?

only if you stare creepily

**cosyfiep** · Apr 12, 2008, 07:51 PM // 19:51

uhm, wait until you are at least 18 .....14 is too young to be thinking about really being in 'love' ....uhm.....just no.
If you LIKE her ask her out, she can say no....if she does then you know your 'feelings' are misplaced and you can then move on----seeing as you are just at the beginning of it all there are plenty more girls out there.

netniwk · Apr 12, 2008, 07:54 PM // 19:54

does this rag smells like cholofrom?

Malice Black · Apr 12, 2008, 07:57 PM // 19:57

2 in the pink, 1 in the stink.

RedStar · Apr 12, 2008, 08:04 PM // 20:04

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You made me search that...lol. Don't do that to her Tyla lol.

Redfeather1975 · Apr 12, 2008, 10:25 PM // 22:25

Wait until she is in a good mood and make eye contact.
You'll probably see on her face whether she thinks you are good looking.
Then talk to her every once in a while, but don't be needy. You don't need to talk to her, you simply want to.

Then when it appears she's interested in you and knows you are interested in her. Sit across from her and rock back and forth without ever saying a word.
Don't stop doing that until she leaves.

And that is how I break so many hearts.

Onarik Amrak · Apr 12, 2008, 10:38 PM // 22:38

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Originally Posted by Malice Black

You're 14?!

Grab her ass.

Fo sho. No jail time! Just juvie!

NB. Not a recommended course of action.

Accursed · Apr 12, 2008, 11:18 PM // 23:18

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Originally Posted by Malice Black

2 in the pink, 1 in the stink.

Nice coment Malice, lol.

@OP: Just ask her out and hope for the best. Thats all there is really.